I'm venting before I start to scream!!!!
Bf and I go pick up the kids from school because its our Mon to do so. Well BM sister is there to also pick up SKs. BM finally decides to call BF to let him know that he will not be picking up kids because he is being punished for not taking them to practice the week prior, yes thats right, this b!tch thinks BF is a freakin' child and needs to make him pay. When only that same Sunday he confirmed the schedule with her and she said yes. So we let the kids go with sister so as not to cause any scene since this is their school. And just to be a even bigger B!tch, BM doesn't take them to practice just so that he can't see them.
BF and BM had an agreement that BF would pick up kids afterschool M and W and then take them to soccer practice. Normal arrangement on off weeks is he sees them on Fri 3-5p.m. Keep in mind after school BF has to make sure kids fed, rested, and their homework is done with enough time to get them to practice. This always put us in a tight schedule and even after practice the jerk would take the kids and go to movies and shopping since she didn't have to lift a finger. So BF tells BM that he was going back to same schedule and since going back to same schedule will not be taking kids to practice or soccer meets as this takes away from his time which is EOW and 2 hrs on off weeks.
Not only that but this 29th and 30th kids are off of school for a school holiday and as per the CO on BFs weekends if kids have holiday then he picks them up early. This idiot is stating since its not a REAL holiday he doesn't pick them up until the 30th at night. And of course since I live in crazy right winged Texas its not like the Dad has any damn say. Even if he does file police report they do NOTHING!!!!
AAaaaaHHHHHHHhhhhhhhhh!!!!
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Something similiar happened
Something similiar happened in our situation. BF had the kids for his weekend, BM called BF a few times and BF didn't answer his phone as he didn't see the calls in the first place. BM got mad, came to the house to pick up the kids. I called the cops, the cops stated that if BF would've had his decree on hand, that she would have not been allowed to take the kids. And BM was told this by a police officer, that next time she does this, if he has his decree with him stating that it's supposed to be his time with the kids, there is nothing they can do for her. I know that you don't want to cause a scene, but what is one scene compared to the lifelong damage that PAS does to a relationship with your child? Our BM knew that BF didn't want to cause scenes, and that he would give into her to prevent them, she knew it, and she played on it. Wasn't until she realized that SHE could face consequences for her behavior that she changed her tune.
And when you do get the cops involved, whether they do anything or not, always make sure you pick up a copy of the report. That way, if you decide to go back to court for contempt on BM, that you have proof that you guys atleast made attempts to exercise visitation. Not only will this prove it to a judge, the kids won't feel like their parent just gave up on them, that they fought to have a relationship with them.
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did she have her papers on
did she have her papers on hand? why did they let her take them with out papers on hand that is wrong that the peace officers did that...ugh being in the middle always is hard most of the time it's enjoyed when BM is not there until she calls then it's like everyone's mood changes
Screw BM and her sister. I
Screw BM and her sister. I would've taken the kid anyways. She can't keep him from his child. There didn't need to be a scene, you just put him in the car and leave. If the cops get called, oh well. He's his father...they would have done nothing.
BM's like that don't deserve custody of their children. You don't use your kids as a "punishment"...that's disgusting.
What a stupid......
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File the report anyway.
File the report anyway. After a stack of them take it to court see what happens...