Okay, this....
is going to drive me crazy until I blog about it and get it off of my chest.
About 2 wks ago, I had made plans with hubby to attend "education day" (going back to school to be a nurse). Then hubby is going to do his thing and go look at music toys in the same town.
Well, we get the phone call tonight from SD12 asking to come spend the weekend with us.
It's supposed to be BM's weekend. Everytime I turn around this WITCH is trying to pawn her/them off on us to take her when it's NOT our weekend to have them. It was SD12's birthday to beat all (09/24/1997). I think it's kind of low of BM ditching her on her b-day. EVERY HOLIDAY we get them as well or when school is not in session if DH is off work.
If it were left to EX-WITCH, SD12 would be living with us. While EX-WITCH lives the luxurious lifestyle. But, I won't let her - she needs to do her part in raising these kids. I refuse to set back and do the work while she steals the credit for it.
When is it that you ever take your Biodaughter when you are supposed to? I take my kids with me ALMOST everwhere I go and enjoy it - a lot. If I don't, I feel guilty or lost w/o them.
I can't understand why she had kids if she does not want them. My god she has EOW to herself. Why can't she take her daughter the 2 weekends she is supposed to.
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I am just saying...
1. I am here to vent and didn't ask for anyone to really comment on what I wrote.I would rather say what I have to say ON here vs. to a child.
This issue has been going for years.
2. We have her a lot. When her mom only has her basically after school. I can not even get a break from my own CHILDREN 1/2 the time, because Bdad has his visitation privileges revoked. You know I would also like to have a break from less kids just like she does SOMETIMES!!!!
3. Visitation schedule - she will NOT follow because she thinks it is not necessary. UP UNTIL NOW I HAVE HAD THEM EVERY SUMMER, X-MAS BREAK, AND SPRING BREAK. IF IT WERE LEFT TO HERE AND LIVING CLOSER I WOULD HAVE THEM EVEN MORE!!!!!!!!!!
I AM TIRED OF GIVING HER 5 MILES WHEN I ONLY WANTED TO GIVE HER 2! SHE IS THE ONE WHO WOULD KEEP HER KIDS FROM ME WHEN THEY WERE YOUNGER.
NOW ALL SHE WANTS TO DO IS SHOVE THEM DOWN MY THROAT. I AM TIRED OF HER TRYING TO TAKE ADVANTAGE OF ME!!!!!!!!!!!
I AM BEING A LITTLE HARSH, HELL NO I DON'T THINK SO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
4. When she is here - I see here when I wake up in the morning. THEN when I go to bed at night. YOU KNOW IT WOULD BE NICE TO HAVE A LITTLE PRIVACY.
The key is to follow the schedule. PERIOD!
If BM has a problem with being the CP then she should give up CP status and initiate a move to Joint Custody or transfer custody to your DH.
Yes your DH only has his kids EOWE but the schedule is the schedule. If custody shifts to EOW then parenting time and responsibility is equal and the issue becomes moot. Of course BM will probably not like loosing the CS income but .......
Just my thoughts of course.
Best regards,
Success is rarely final. Failure is rarely fatal. It is character, courage and consistency of effort that count. Vince Lombardi (with some minor Rags modifications) To each according to their performance, screw Karl Marx. (Rags)