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AHHHHHH BM needs a hiding!!!!!!

kiwi's picture

Had SDs for the weekend as was planned. They were due to go back to BMs Sun 5pm as is normal. 2.30pm Sun DH gets a txt from BM saying "can you drop the girls off at ******* as I am staying another night (she had gone away for the weekend with new BF). The girls HATE going to ******* as it is a dirty house and they don't really like the other kids there. We had tears from them when DH told them what BM had said and so we had them another night and I took them to school this morning. We are getting full custody of them soon so it will be the ususal routine for me to organise them in the mornings but it drives me crazy that BM is jumping the gun and yet again taking advantage of us. When we went around to ******** house to tell her we were keeping the SDs for the night we found out that BM had organised it all on Fri before she went but didn't bother to tell us!! Probably because she knew DH would have something to say about her sending them to somewhere they hate while she has an extended dirty weekend!!

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WifeNTheMiddle's picture

That is terrible!! We haven't had to deal with that...we just usually have to deal with BM having a new BF or husband every month. Sounds like it's a good thing you guys are getting full custody so the kids aren't subjected to that sort of behavior. The kids will be sure to thank you later in life for what you have done for them. Good call!

Zimka's picture

That SS will only be dropped of to BM no one else...... and she will only let DH pick up SS although I am allowed to go with him. I would just have kept them then gone to the court and filed for abandonment....... she obviously doesn't want them........

Zimka's picture

can I help when you hunt her down...... and give her the bash.... LOL