SD's stupid choices
SD15 was texting past her curfew this weekend so we took her phone. While reading through the text messages we discover that she's bragging to a friend about running around a neighborhood sans clothing while she was staying the night with a friend about a week ago. I thought maybe she was just blowing smoke so DH asks her about it and she admits it! To her father! While giggling like its FUNNY!! I thought my DH was going to smack her but he maintained his cool and told her it would be in her best interest to go to her room.
I don't know what to do about this. Everytime I think she's learned a lesson she does something else just stupid. DH is pissed and at the end of his rope. Her disrespect for us and herself is appalling.
Anyone with teenage girls have any advice on how to get her to value herself and have some respect for the few rules and boundaries we have set up for her?
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she needs to be informed of
she needs to be informed of what would have happened if she had been caught. fines, juvenile detention, school expulsion, etc.
Possible mandatory
Possible mandatory registration on a sex-offenders list for the rest of her life....
Probably true now.
Probably true now.
watch "easy a" with her!
watch "easy a" with her! young girl think "who cares what any one else thinks" that movie is all about that mentality (its funny too)
After dealing with a teen
After dealing with a teen girl, and no longer wishing to have a damn thing to do with her, my best advice, is come down hard....You may lose her to BM if that is an option, but you have no choice. When things get ugly, you need to be able to say you did everything you could. DH and I can say that about SD16. We tried and tried. She is who she is and that is a person, I will not allow back in my life. DH may, but, I will not.