SD has a birthday today. I am a hobby baker so I made her a cake. I figured it was my olive branch after both SO and BM had "talked" to her about being rude.

SO is on a deadline to show me things have improved with the child by the end of the month but I had decided that if she didn't message to thank me, I was pulling g the plug early. He complained at Christmas that she didn't thank him for her gifts until he asked her to so I considers this to be a time he could prove his ability to parent by telling her to message me.

Imagine my surprise when she PHONED me to say thank you! Is this him finally parenting?