WWWHHHYYYYY MMMMEEEEE????!!?????

i just HAD to open my damn mouth. *head* *desk* *head* *desk*

normal evening last night. sir breaksalot was in bed early. i stayed up 'til my usual bedtime (11'ish) then shut everything off and went to bed. on my way, i hear kaos still up on xbox live. (his door is directly across from ours, literally 3 1/2 feet in front of our door.)

i get in bed and debate whether or not to wake dh up. i repeated my mantra until i fell asleep "who gives a f*ck? not meee!!"

dh's alarm goes off this a.m., he gets up to wake kaos up. a few minutes later he comes back to bed. wwhhhaaaa??? dh says "oh, he didnt want to take the bus, so i'll let him sleep another 30 mins and drop him off when i take lurch in."

theeen - tuff opens mouth, inserts foot. "oh really dh... that's funny since he was up until who knows when last night on xbox, past the time i came to bed."

why me... why in the blazing h3ll did i have that moment of weakness? was it cuz i was still half asleep? idk...

anyhoo, dh then proceeds to sigh and says "figures. next time it's past his bedtime and you notice that, would you please come let me know?"

i didnt respond and just rolled over. i'm trying to figure out a way to remind him that i will NOT be the go-between with his non-parenting. but the fact that i even SAID anything kinds undermines myself!

dh is much "nicer" than i am (infer what u want from that adjective...) if he were MY kid and i found out that info, i'd have jumped right back up and MADE him gtfo of bed, then crawled his ass like a drill seargent until he was on the d@mn bus. but not my kid, not my problem, right? but now i've made it my problem by opening my mouth to begin with. UGH.