Tonight Demon15 had a virtual counseling appt. She was in her room and I walked past and could clearly hear her talking to her counselor saying "I have like 4 friends, I just don't like them very much and I just use them all for different things. One gives me rides and takes me shopping, another tells me things. I just use them, I'm a user! I don't really like people". Then in the next breath she told the counselor "we match, you have red on and I have green on. I just got my nails done". 
What in the actual F is wrong with this girl?? I was disgusted. I told DH about it and he just made a face and was like, that's not a great sign, at least she's saying it to her counselor. I imagined her counselor ending the appt and immediately googling different careers. 
 

Then DH told me that he text SS18 this morning saying, so is this how it's going to be, you're just going to act like we don't exist? SS got home from college on Monday and is at Crazy's and hasn't contacted DH (although DH hasn't contacted him either). DH said they have barely talked at all in almost 2 mos. SS replied 8hrs later and said he "didn't think he'd feel very welcome here". DH asked why and SS went into his poor me spiel about how DH didn't even want him to come home for Xmas (not true) and how even DH's mom said DH is the only one concerned about SS coming home for a whole month and spending all of it with his Jr-in-HS-gf because he may leave college and move back home (where there are no colleges for his major). So SS's text also means SS has been talking sh*t about DH to DH's family. DH is not Impressed with SS. He said he has some hard lessons to learn, like not everyone is going to tell you what you want to hear, and what it's like to pay for your own car ins. I said, also, you paying for things comes with respect, which he's not been showing you. 
 

Demon told me today that SS said he is "probably" going to come by us for Christmas. Maybe. He's not sure yet. Ok. We definitely don't need to know for sure. I honestly want nothing to do with Christmas this year, all because of skids.