So we are currently moving right now. My sd12 has been so helpful. Packing her room unpacking boxes and just general moving help. He brother my ss10 on the other hand is a royal pain in my ass. He sat on his floor for 35mins playing with a pile of garbage (broken toys) my husband and my self made multiple attempts to motivate him. Look everyone hates moving but we as a family need to work together. All he has to do is pack his room. I go in there and help then leave and bam he's back to sweet eff all. Then he starts to get all whiny. I can't even right now.