So we went to pick my SS4 two weeks ago and the back of his whole left hand was burned by an iron. BM says she was ironing clothes on her bed with a small ironing board and he jumped on the bed and burnt himself. Whatever. It looks horrible. THe kid doesn't listen so this is somewhat beleiveable. Then today when we pick him up for his weekday visitation, he has a black eye! When asked how it happened BM just says "ask him" SS4 says "Mommy says Toby (her other son) jumped up and hit my eye with his head." Weird. My mommy says? Hmm. So my husband asked why it seems that he always has something major wrong with him i.e. 2nd degree burn on his hand or a black eye. He hints that she may need to keep a closer eye on him and she blows up. I'm BEYOND over the drama that comes with these stupid visitations. Everytime she is confronted she acts as if we have the NERVE to question her parenting and acts as if my husband is a complete dead beat. I depise this woman with everything in me. She proceeds to text my husband 34 times in 15 minutes. Obviously we struck a nerve. I eventually grabbed the phone and said if she didnt want to have the cops here when she picked him up she would stop with the harrassing texts and phone calls and let everyone enjoy the visit. Of course she respects nothing and keeps texting. So i called the Police and they over saw the exchange when SS4 left. She was speechless then but of course whenever she is out of sight the texting starts up again. Then the blame is put on me saying i planted everything in everyones head. Jealous B*tch. Its always comes back on me even if I'm not around. It's okay though because my son isn't the one in all of the pictures and videos with the black eye and the burns explaining how his mother told him to say things. Its her son. And if she is going to be a piece of crap mom, someone has to watch out for that little boy. UGH. I'm beyond annoyed.