Finally, after 4 years of living in the house that my husband bought and shared with the ex, we are selling the house and looking for a new house! I am so happy to finally have my own again and get rid of the bad karma. My husband is looking forward to having something bigger and that is ours as well. We have done our best to include the kids,and be understanding and sympathetic, even taking them to see some of the houses. We are not moving them out of schools, the homes we have been considering are less then a mile from our current house. But my step-daughter is having some trouble.