BM is a B**CH!! and I'm TIRED of her....
Ok, so, the BM of my 2 stepchildren has really pushed my last button! Last night we were at a public place (doing something for HER child) and she started her crap AGAIN! In the parking lot, she decides that she's going to tell me that I need to realize that I am only a SM to her children. They are hers, she birthed them and I need to accept that. She doesn't want me making anymore decisions about them or concerning them. I know who they biologically belong to but financially and responsibly, she makes them mine.
I proceed to tell her this and I also proceed to tell her that if she didn't want another woman raising her children, she shouldn't have screwed around on her husband! And that she's all the time running around screaming, "i'm the moma, i'm the moma", well honey, you need to step up and BE THE MOMA!! If she was so good at it, then why do they come to me for things they want or need instead of her. Because she's a piece of crap and her husband now is more important to her than her children are. She proved that when she walked out on them 9 years ago when the youngest was in diapers and left them with their daddy to be with this man who is not a daddy to his own children!
Somebody please help me find some way to deal with this or at least get it out of my mind.
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Document everything that she
Document everything that she does to you. Trust me our BM started out with verbal and move on to destruction of my property. I now have a RO against her and she spent 3 nights in jail :).
But just find outlets. Try not to attack her because it will make it worse for you stress wise. This is a great site to vent on. I my FDH and I also go out and shoot guns when use old pictures as targets. (his idea)
Just focus on you your husband and your skids. If you have a good relationship with them keep at it and build on it. Good luck.
Understood and agreed but do
Understood and agreed but do you know how hard that is????????? My husband called her husband (which is resonable)last night after the "incedent" and told him to tell her that unless soemthing is wrong with one of the children, she is to not text or call him PERIOD!!