To neighbor lady next door to one of our rehabs.  She is thinking of moving in with her BF and renting out her house.  I advised AGAINST it!  She is late fifties, semi retired, divorced with grown kids and has been a SM before although not mega drama like most of us have here.   Her BF is late sixties, retired and has grown children as well.   Not sure if he is widowed or divorced.   They seem total opposites.  He is more old fashioned and she seems very independent. 

She has already talked negatively about him.   She seems to think it's OK b/c his kids are grown and out on their own.

I sort of have a vested interest bc her house is next door to our rentals and I'd rather her house not be vacant, sold or rented out to bad tenants.  I gave her an idea what drama filled steplife is like and she seemed "SMH" but not surprised.  It is a beautiful old house like most on the street but even Chef told her that "there's something to having your own place to go back to."