$*#%&^!!!!! This is on you DH!
I am so annoyed with DH. We are moving and I had to go in and clean the skids' bathroom.
I have no nice words for it. Rotting food under the sink, molding towels and washcloths, every bottle of handsoap ever given is full and shoved into a drawer along with toothbrushes full of God knows what. All the TP was covered in dust and squashed but never even unrolled. But the walls are covered in poop and snot and something else I cannot identify.
Floor is covered in filth, no soap in the shower, the shampoo I bought months ago is still completely full. And there is mold everywhere. All the cleaning products are full.
Supposedly DH has been checking that the bathroom is cleaned twice a week. Yeah right. WTH?! Can you not just go in there and check everything?! Why must I nag and nag and nag for anything to get done?! AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH!
I haven't even lifted the toilet lid yet...
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This should be on DH, why are
This should be on DH, why are you cleaning it?
Your DH should be in there
Your DH should be in there cleaning it, not you. He allowed that disgusting mess to accumulate, he can clean it up.
I have no words. I ask SO to
:sick: I have no words. I ask SO to check SS undies. I go in the wash basket and find poo'd in rods. What is so damn hard about them checking grrrr
Agree. There is a lot of work
Agree. There is a lot of work to be done due to the skids. I do not work outside the house and said I would start cleaning so he could paint and hang new doors tonight. I have stopped cleaning and he can finish it.
I am just so angry that he couldn't just check this stuff regularly. I have to nag and nag and nag for him to check anything regarding the skids.
Do you not ever have company?
Do you not ever have company? does that not embarrass the shit out of your DH? I think that was my saving grace..... I would bitch and nag and finally I just gave up. Generally if we were having expected company DH would go in that bathroom (since it was on the main floor and company would be using it) and clean it. But one time one of DH's buddies stopped by un announced and while he was there asked to use the bathroom. DH told me that after his buddy left, he went to see how bad the bathroom was and he was mortified.... blood on the toilet seat, dirty underwear on the floor, sink a nasty toothpasty, hairy mess, etc.
I just looked at him and shrugged my shoulders and told him that I gave up, that SD17 was HIS circus. That was when he started checking weekly and riding her about keeping it "clean" (of course I use that term loosely as it was never anywhere near MY standard of "clean")
Oh dear God do not look
Oh dear God do not look inside the toilet. I would just pour bleach all over the sink, toilet, tub and floor. Then take old towels and dry it up. Everything would go into the garbage.
In the future do not give skids anything unless they ask for it. Have weekly inspections of the bathroom with everyone present. Each should have a set cleaning schedule. This way your new places does not look like that in a month.
What. The actual. FUCK. is
What. The actual. FUCK. is wrong with skids? Osd is an absolute PIG when it comes to her bathroom and bedroom...the bedroom smells like sour sweat and old food. Evidently Voldemort was psycho neat, (yeah right, that trollop has a cleaning lady), so since osd has been living with dh, she's been a complete SLOB. The other two leave their ish laying all over the house, have NO CLUE how to hang up wet/damp towels and are, evidently, allergic to loading and unloading the dishwasher. Ss9 still pees around the gd toilet. I seriously have NO IDEA why skids seem to be so effing NASTY.
If I didn't ride DH, who in
If I didn't ride DH, who in turn rode SD17 about keeping her bathroom tidy, I have no doubt in my mind that bathroom would have been just as trashed.
She would literally have 6 or 7 empty bottles of shampoo and conditioner laying in the bottom of the tub that she would apparently maneuver around every day to take a shower, globs of sasquatch hair in the drain, blood on the toilet seat, no TP for days on end, she somehow managed to stain the shower curtain and spilled something on the bathmat and ruined that. Whatever, I wasn't about to clean or replace anything while she was there. The minute she moved out, and after MIL cleaned the bathroom spic and span (because she felt guilty that SD17 was such a slob and she was sticking up for her thinking that DH and I were just being "mean") I bought a new shower curtain, new towels, new washcloths, some new art, a new bath mat and new sink stuff. She has been gone 6 months and now BS5 is pretty much the only one who uses that bathroom.. he takes a bath in there and we all use the toilet as needed and guess what??? The fucking bathroom is spotless. Cause BS5 and I clean it weekly as one of his chores... ya know like fucking NORMAL people do.
I am so glad I am skid free at the moment... I swear I can feel my blood pressure rising just recalling this crap. I'd make your DH clean this shithole up as his chore management skills are clearly lacking!
And really cringe to think about y'all that actually have to share a bathroom with skids..... YUCK!!!!!!! I think that would be a deal breaker for me... like seriously!
We do not share. That would
We do not share. That would be a deal breaker for me too. My bios have their own bathroom, the skids have theirs, and we have our own. The skids are in what used to be the house's master so you can only get to their bathroom through their room. I refuse to go into the room and so have not seen the bathroom since we moved in last year.
If DH and I had ever had to clear military housing I think I would have just run away.
SDs have their own bathroom
SDs have their own bathroom in our new house. They are not allowed to use ours, at least when I am there...I suspect DP lets them when I'm not there but I'll find that out soon enough as they are on summer break now and coming over with us today for their first week off (goodbye peace and clean house, hello disengagement and staying away as much as possible).
After three weeks they took their first showers on Sunday.
I also discovered they were not flushing the toilet AGAIN. It's one of those you have to hold down the handle till the bowl empties, you know, 10 seconds that cannot possibly be done. I made DP go down there at take care of the grossness (I was giving a friend a house tour and THAT was fun to see). Of course he has his excuses as to why they cannot possibly flush. Or use toilet paper properly. Towels are on the floor or just not there.
I made it clear I will not ever clean that bathroom. Towels dirty? They can put them in the laundry room. They know where the hamper is and they know where clean towels are. Cleaning products and extra soap and TP is under the sink. They are about to run out of TP near the toilet so I'm watching this one with amusement. Don't clean that bathroom. I also let DP know that I was not going to clean the house we moved out of. I didn't create that mess and no way was I taking more time to clean up theirs.
I would have never cleaned
I would have never cleaned that bathroom up, regardless if I worked inside or outside of the home. NEVER.
If DH can't find time to do it, I would hire one of those hazmat/biohazard clean up crews to come in and get it clean and then charged DH.
NEVER.
We have this same issue at
We have this same issue at our house. I typically refuse to even enter the bathroom on the main level. I can say with aboslute certainty that I have not went #1 or #2 anywhere else in the house besides the master bath in YEARS! I feel lucky that I at least have a place that is (mostly) free of filth. What about families that only have one bathroom!? I would probably snap, but only because I am a huge bitch and don't enjoy pee, poop, trash, and toothpaste all over. I especially dislike the Old Faithful style poop geyser that routinely ends up decorating the toilet bowl inside all the way up the rim to the seat.