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Submitted by thebettermom on Wed, 09/03/2008 - 10:32pm

So FSD9 was over for her regular Wednesday evening visit. FH just left to take her back to BM's house. Her first soccer game is this Saturday and FH said "bring your uniform with you on Friday when you come over." FSD said "okay. did you get my soccer shorts?" FH says "no, were we supposed to?" and I said, "no, you need to tell your mom if you need soccer shorts." and that was that. It just pisses me off because she gets sooo much money in CS each month because FH makes good money, but I know she was depending on us to buy the soccer shorts because in the past before I got involved with FH she had him giving her extra cash all the time for things like that. It just makes me worry that FH will let her manipulate him and won't stand his ground that the CS she receives each month is to cover all of those things. We clothe, feed, and entertain FSD when she is in our care. BM isn't getting a cent more.

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Submitted by StepAbove on Thu, 09/04/2008 - 9:16am

When you have her you feed her, cloth her, bath her, entertain her, buy her goodies, and on top of that you pay a big fat child support payment out of each check. Where do the BM's get off thinking you should buy all the extras to? I will never understand it.

I think I may start playing the stupid games BM's play. Like next time I have SD call BM up and say oh by the way next time she comes over make sure she has some black shorts and a red shirt to match because we are taking family pictures and that's the outfit I want her to wear....... Wonder how these stupid BM's would like that?

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Submitted by frustratedinMA on Thu, 09/04/2008 - 9:31am

Oh.. that is funny.. Could you imagine the crap she would be saying about you then!?!?!?

Yeah.. Not sure WHY they think we should foot the bill for things that are covered in the CS. Hell, its bad enough that most of us have to go out and buy clothes for our place, because the bm's refuse to send any nice clothes to our places.. I mean.. GOD FORBID!

SD9 has this shirt. it has a whole in the back of it. I told SD last weekend we had her that there was a hole in her shirt and said.. I guess its time this shirt is retired... Guess what she had on this past weekend.. YEP.. that same damn wholey shirt. Bugs the crap out of me.

Sorry to go off on a tangent.