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Here an update in my life....

tankh21's picture

I haven't blogged in awhile so here goes....OSS is still trying to sabotage my marriage using manipulation.  I avoid him like the plague.  OSS is still DH's little golden child.  BM thinks that the skids should always come first no matter what we have going on in our lives.  I do not go anywhere with DH when he has the skids anymore so I could really care less.  I have just been in my own little world and ignore all of the drama which I guess is why I haven't been complaining so much.  I hope everyone is doing well.  

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hereiam's picture

Okay, but how are YOU DOING? Being married and being in your own little world does not sound ideal, that is not what partnership is about.

How are things when the step kids are not around? Are you getting ANY joy out of this relationship?

I'm glad you are checking in, we have missed you!

I love dogs's picture

I was going to ask this. And I just want to add that I'll never understand how parents can have a "golden child".

tankh21's picture

I am doing ok hereiam just staying disengage from all of DH's and BM's drama and doing anything for the skids.  Yes, I am getting a little bit more joy because I try not to pay attention to the negativity when the skids come over.  Things are better now because I don't let as much stuff bother me.

Aniki-Moderator's picture

Good to by hear from you, tank!

Have you considered planning some fun activities for YOU?