I've been on a roller coaster ride the last few weeks with myself and DH. I love the man to death but sometimes I want to shake him and scream! He doesn't screw things up often but when he does it is really hurtful.
A few weeks ago we went to a late dinner, just us, and ran into SD22 and her friends who were getting ready to leave the place. Great, I love seeing her, we don't see enough of her really, so we stopped to talk. Well, around the corner was Hag Jr, SD20, one I hoped to never see again. After all she has done to us in the last year, all the evil things that DH finally saw and said "enough, I want her out of our lives for good", he goes over and hugs the bitch! He chatted away for a few minutes with her while SD22 tries to keep me calm, I am voicing that I hate the bitch and so does he so I can't fathom why he is talking to her punk ass!
Well, we had a one sided dinner. I didn't talk, except to the waiter, and I was so angry. We had a heated discussion in the car on the way home where he apologized over and over and said it was a knee jerk reaction, he still feels the same way. I slept on the couch for two nights because after all that I see where she has been texting him, no response from him, but he lied about hearing from her during our discussion.
Finally, after I had a lot of time to think, we talk again. I tell DH I realize he was buzzed that night, that it was just something that happened, and if he really wanted to mend things with her I would not stand in his way (I wouldn't, I never have, this is the millionth time she has done this but I am done this time). He says no, he wants nothing to do with her so I tell him then he must protect us, protect us from people like her, and going around like he did doesn't do that.

I have been ok but then today I just started to get angry again, about Hag Jr. I guess it started yesterday, it was my grandson's first bday and we didn't get to see him, we haven't since he was a month old, because Hag Jr is a Hag. I don't think I am angry at DH but just looking to take it out on someone and he is closest to me. Just trying to calm down before we both get home, DH doesn't deserve being yelled at! I can't wait for next week when we can get away and I can shut off my brain for a week. Hopefully that will help me heal from all the pain that bitch has caused.