You are here

supermom5's Blog

On the brink of DIVORCE

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Sun, 07/27/2014 - 9:17pm

Sad, hurt, crushed..you name it, I'm feeling it right now. There has been so much going on lately too hard to explain it all but this is the latest...DH and I set rules and they get broken because BM can just do that. I'm not talking about in her home, IN OURS! DH and I had a set rule when it came to cell phones (kids had to be 12). We made this rule about 5 yrs ago. SD11 has a tablet and I allowed the "texting" app on it for her and BD11 but just a month ago had it removed because SD11 was using to her advantage (getting her way with family/BM..manipulation if you wanna say).

Center of Attention

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Sat, 01/19/2013 - 12:16pm

Why can't anyone understand how I feel? It really gets frustrating. Last night, BD9 and SD10 wanted to spend the night with my mom. It was going to be a "girls night." (well, that what my girls wanted) DH and I go to drop off SD10 and BD9 and we go inside for a minute to visit. (SS5 is already mad because he wants to stay and I told him "no.") We get in the car to leave (being there for only about 15 mins)and SS5 is pulling his crap.

SS5 IS AT IT AGAIN!!!

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Fri, 11/30/2012 - 8:17am

I have actually been trying really hard to be the loving SM to my SS5. Once again..it gets me no where. This morning has already started off pretty bad. I get the SKs up for school (my two are at their dads this week) and I see my BS3 money jar empty and a $1 bill rolled up on the dresser (no coins are to be found)...I asked "what happened to BS3 money?" SD10 said, "I don't really know, while you were at school last night BS3 came to my room crying saying that SS5 dumped BS3 money in the toy box." I go to the kitchen where SS5 is eating breakfast and asked him the same question.

Sick and tired of being Sick and TIRED!!!

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Tue, 11/13/2012 - 9:23pm

Just really frustrated and I don't know how long this will last...(everything..the aguing, not tellin me things..everything). Does it get any better? How do you deal with such situations..let it go ALL THE TIME OR KEEP FIGHTING FOR WHAT YOU BELIEVE IS RIGHT!? Ugh! (previous, DH filed CS on BM because he got mad at her and has been trying to drop it) So...DH hasn't had any luck in contacting the CS office to drop the CS.

Need Opinions!!!

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Fri, 10/19/2012 - 2:05pm

Child support was filed a couple of months ago. (Husband filed on BM) Kids have been in our care for almost five yrs with no help form BM at all. Of course he filed when she pissed him off about something and now a court date is set and BM has been served. BM calls yesterday crying (from what I was told by my husband) about the whole situation.

SS5 dislikes me with a PASSION!!!

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Wed, 09/26/2012 - 10:57am

All the kids (my two and the the skids) get home from school (the ones that are in school, my S3 isn't old enough to go yet). Anyways, I am always at the table helping everyone with their work. Which I actually enjoy doing! SS5 is in Kindergarten so he needs the most help with his homework and has to be told what to do page by page. When we got to one of the "writing a letter page" he only wrote the letter twice. I said "Son, (SS5) you need to write more than that.

Weekend Visit with BM comes to an end...

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Sun, 09/23/2012 - 8:40pm

So SD10 and SS5 get home from BM house (nana bringing them home) and SD10 is upset. Has cried all weekend. BM boyfriend is always making her feel bad. Today he actually was throwing pine cones at her and making her cry and BM told her to stop acting like a brat that he was only playing with her. BM calls my husband and asked him if their D has been acting up lately at home because she has been out of control at her house. He told her "of course not, she has her normal lil spats but is okay." Which she does just fine here, nothing out of the normal for a typical 10 yr old.

SD10 Birthday is coming up!

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Sun, 09/23/2012 - 11:14am

SD10 will be 10 in just a couple of weeks (that's why I just put SD10 since I'm new to this blogging) Well, as her SM I have taken care of her 24/7 for yrs now. Every BDAY for either one of my SKIDS, I have planned and taken care of events. Since my husband is out of town working, we don't talk as often (which is definitely understandable) but he sometimes makes decisions without talking to me about my SKIDS. Most ppl would say "he can do that, they are his kids and BM kids not yours" but wait a second!!!

Bored Out My Mind

supermom5's picture

Submitted by supermom5 on Sat, 09/22/2012 - 8:23pm

This is my first blog...ever. The hubby is gone for two weeks (work) and I only have the little one S3 this weekend. When all the kids are here at the same time, all I want is a break. But when they are gone, I just don't know what to do with myself. I always hear from ppl "go shopping, hang out with your friends, etc." The thing is, we aren't made out of money to actually go and do things and I really only have a couple of friends. They do work and have lives of their own. We do hang out when we can. I don't work, I am not in school..I am only waiting for the right time.