"Oh stop making that face, you look just like your FATHER!"

"How dare you say that! Did your FATHER tell you to say that?"

"I love you soooo much, no one could ever love you as much as I do! Do you love me most of all?"

Now imagine the poor little girl listening to these words coming out of her beloved Mother's mouth. Imagine what she is thinking and feeling. You know she can hear the hatred in Mommy's voice. You know she just wants her Mommy to love her no matter what...and she will try her best to behave the way Mommy wants her to behave.