Visitation weekend is near and what does that mean? BM will be contacting DH, yet again, to switch pick up and drop off with DH. She usually has some excuse about the need to work late, saying something "terrible" and last minute has come up and it will be really difficult to convince "her boss" to let her leave before a certain time on Friday evening (um, she's the boss at work...she's a partner, she doesn't report to anyone). DH replies and says, "it's fine for the kids to come later." She replies and says, "but it won't be until 11pm" or something like that. She then tells DH that he said at the mediation that he didn't care which way he drove (he says he didn't say anything of the sort and they were in separate rooms for the last mediation). DH repeatedly tells her he can't pick them up (and he can't because he's in charge of our daughter in the evenings and bath time and bed time coincide with drop off time). BM also didn't have this same problem with having to "work late" on Fridays when she was married to ex husband #2, but now that she has a new boyfriend she all of a sudden has many night and weekend work commitments. Also, despite her having to stay "late" at work, she can always bring the kids by early (late afternoon), just not at the 5:30-6pm drop off time, even though she is supposedly stuck at the office all day.

Seriously, though, how many times will she ask and have DH say no, before she stops asking? The answer appears to be infinity...