SS19 gripe......cant help it....but this REALLY annoyed me this morning!!
So SS19 comes back to mine last night, with details of his day. He has (apparently) done OK with sorting some sh*t out....time will tell....
Anyway, he has to leave the house with me at 7 every morning, so at about 10 to 7 I always tel my BD7 to start sorting herself out, get her coat shoes etc ready to go and I do the same. SS19 is WELL AWARE that I have to catch 3 buses every morning to drop my BD7 off at minders and get to work.....so this morning I do the normal drill...
I get up at 5.30, have a cuppa, then shower.
Then I get BD7 up at 6am and she gets washed and dressed.....I wake SS19 up too
Then I and BD7 have breakfast by about 6.20....SS19 still dossing on my sofa..
Then Its time to tidy hair, makeup (me) etc......SS19 still dossing....
Then at 7.45 SS19 is boiling the kettle...."you only have 15 mins SS19. Ive alot to do today, as do you"
SS19 "Ill just have a quick milky coffee.....can I have some cereal?"
Me " You have less than 15 mins SS19, so you best be quick. I will not leave the house late today!"
So, me and my BD7 are no w ready and waiting at 10 to 7......waiting for SS19...who eventually finishes up and sits down of the sofa.....so my normal drill kicks in
Me "BD7, lest get stuff sorted now please, its time to get ready to go"
BD7 "OK mommy"...and off she goes.....I start turning TVs off etc....and start getting ready to leave also.....SS19 is STILL sitting on the sofa..it is now 7.00..
Me "SS19, you need to get sorted NOW!"
SS19 "Ive only got to do my coat!"
Me "Well get on then, we are ready and waiting and no running behind!"
EVENTUALLY at 7.05 SS19 decides to get himself sorted......taking his sweet a** time...so I kicked him out, coatless and hatless and shoeless and told him to get ready outside.......by the time Ive locked up its 7.08....
I missed my bus..had to wait for another one and ended up being 25 mins late for work!
Am not happy with the dossing F*cker!!
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I would tell him he has to be
I would tell him he has to be out of the house at 6:30 every morning. This way you get a little wriggle room. If he is not moving by 6:20 tell him his coat, hat shoes etc will be on your front doorstep rain or shine. If you have an option he cannot come back to your place ever again. He is 19. It was not your fault he did not learn any survival skills. At this stage of the game there are counsellors for that.
Thanks All!! He did my nut
Thanks All!!
He did my nut in...seriously...and have no fear, OH will know about this this afternoon when I get home too! SS19 knew full well he had to be up and ready to leave, and if he didnt like it...well he shouldnt have lost the keys 6 hours after receiving them and he shouldn't be dossing on my bloody sofa! lol
He has stuff to sort today, his social claim needs doing and he needed to see the Council again today re finding somewhere else to stay!
Ill also bet he either wont come back tonight or he will be back late.....dont care if he doesnt....but late, he wont get in.....girls in bed for 9, and Ill be following and OH is working nights so boo hoo to SS19!