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SS19....AFTER HIS FIRST DAY STILL MANAGES TO F*CK UP!!

stressedstep's picture

GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!

Yesterday morning, OH left SS19 OHs own house keys so he get sorted what he needed too...OH leaves for work at 6am and I leave with my BD7 at 7am.....OHs last words to SS19 - DO NOT LOSE THOSE KEYS.....MY last words to SS19...DO NOT LOSE THE KEYS......

OH was back late from work last night, so didnt get chance to speak to him about whats going on....anyway, he eventually gets home, has a bath then settles down. By this time its getting on for 8.30, and we settle to eat and I get my BD7 ready for bed.....OH asks me if SS19 was home when I got back, I told him he wasnt but he had left a note...read the note out to him...he didnt seem impressed in fairness...his actual words were "if I find out SS19 is bullsh*tting to me , I swear I will go on one!"......I mean, why he would think that SS19 is lying is beyond me Blum 3

Anyway, so we finish eating and chatting about our day and such and we are getting ready to chill, and Im about to ask about SS19 and what the apparent plan is, when the intercom buzzes....I ask who it is, OH tells me its SS19.....I ask why he isnt using the keys that OH left him.....OH replies...HE HAS LOST THE KEYS!!...WTF!!....we are down to ONE SINGLE SET!

Apparently SS19 got "attacked" and had his bag stolen by a gang earlier on in the day...YEAH RIGHT...SO WHY DID HE STAY OUT UNTIL 9.30PM THEN!?.....He also LOST a mobile phone that I GAVE TO HIM on Saturday night...it was in said bag......so SS19 comes in, no bruises, nothing, moaning about his "poorly hand"....which has NO SWELLING OR BRUISING EITHER, NOR DOES IT THIS MORNING....and OH launches into a verbal ear bashing...tells SS19 that he shouldnt have been in the area he was in, shouldnt have been around the people he was with! :jawdrop:

Turns out, this "gang" is a family that have been involved in a grudge with SS19 and his mates for ages and the stupid dumb f*ck went up around their area.....he reckons he was set upon after a "mate" told them he was local.......so OH goes on a nut, asks about social being sorted and as usual, excuses start rolling out....OH carries on.....Im foot tapping, fuming, trying hard to control my temper over this waste of a f*cking menstrural period that OH calls a son.....so, I piped up and told both OH and SS19 that SS19 had to be up early, as he was leaving the house at 7am with me as there were no keys.....

I didnt speak after that, just watched TV and ignored the little f*cker.........me and OH go to bed about an hour after SS19 got home.....laying in bed, he is feeling our baby kick about, and says "how about we get SS19 to paint the gloss work in the nursery tomorrow?"...I stay quiet for a few beats before saying "he has social and such to sort out tomorrow since he didnt do it today".....OH agreed......he obviously has feelings of pity for SS19, its his son....well I dont....

Then, late last night OH receives a text, at like 12.30am!!...its from SS19s cousin, telling OH that SS19s MOBILE PHONE is at SS19s nans house.....OH doesnt read this message until he gets up, goes to SS19, wakes him up and tells him.....SS19 replies simply "Oh thats where it is!"....

SS19 is full of BULLSH*T.....

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SecondGeneration's picture

Locks definitely need to be changed, I imagine SS is lying about the "gang" thing but the reality is there are keys to your house floating around general society. If SS has lost them at school it only takes a kid who doesnt like him to pick them up and you will have a break in. It happened to a kid in my class, he dropped his keys, bad kid in the class took them and robbed his house that lunch time because he knew where he lived.

If your partner isnt up to throwing SS out then its a simple case of SS has lost his right to keys, thus he has to leave when the last one between you and partner leave and will have to wait to come home.

stressedstep's picture

SS19 not a druggie as such...he likes to have a spliff, but can never afford any anyway so its rare he smokes it at all.....OH has quit too......OH tried to insinuate that SS19 did other types when I found that old wrap, by telling me he would ask if it was SS19s...so far as I know, he has done nothing harder than the smoke.....

Re the keys...one of the first things I asked was if he had anything with my address on it in his bag....he was adamant that there was not....but, Ive already decided to get the locks sorted anyway.....OHs sons have always lost the keys....

I will be saying for him to not have keys again.....the area itself isnt dodgy, its a nice area, SS19 has just p*ssed some people off and should have stayed away but decided to be an arrogant little f*ck wit and go there! I personally believe he got into a normal scrap, and put his bag down and forgot to pick it up....and he made up the "gang attack"......

Ive just upset OH, by telling him im looking up hostels and locals housing associations........