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Submitted by sterlingsilver on Sun, 06/09/2013 - 2:32pm

Dh left over 2 hours ago to take ss16 to church. He's not coming back quickly for our day together, the one day I get off this week, so I call him. He says he's helping ss19 with something (very vague) and that he's going to bring ss19 home for the day so he can help out with the fence (dh is paying ss16 to help build and I was going to pay bs15 to help with the boards, now ss19 has to get in on it too and he doesn't ever do anything but stand around b/c he's over 300 lbs and can hardly work anyhow???). Sh!t!

Well firstly this is my only day off for two weeks and I wanted to spend the day with dh and with ss16 gone it was going to be a nice quiet day, secondly ss19 is a chronic thief so now I have to go and put away all DH's cancer pain meds and basically ss19 proof our house, or maybe lock all doors but then he ends up pissing in my flower beds if he has to piss.

I am soooo beyond pissed. WHY does DH have to ruin our day????????? I know he loves his kids but I even told my bd19 that she cannot come over today b/c I was busy having a restful day. Shit, may as well bring over the whole gang and throw a party, all the work done by me b/c that's what always happens.

OH I feel like such a whiny b!tch. I am so tired and so DONE with skids. I honestly want to crawl into a knot hole right now. Sad

VENT OVER! lol

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oldone's picture

Submitted by oldone on Sun, 06/09/2013 - 5:19pm

I'd leave the pain meds out in plain sight. And then I'd keep checking on the bottle and call the cops the minute it goes missing.

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Submitted by Shook on Sun, 06/09/2013 - 5:23pm

Sorry to hear that Sterling. You probably were looking forward to it too, a nice couples break from work, skids, unpacking & all. Phew, your life even tires me out Wink Try it again & really set the itinerary up with him then make a break for it!

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Submitted by sterlingsilver on Sun, 06/09/2013 - 5:35pm

Thanks guys. It turns out that DH was not communicating with me for a reason, he was in the middle of cops and taking ss19's crzy bipolar gf to the mental instituation and back to Bermuda tomorrow with a police escort. It's a long wearying story so I won't go into detail but in short ss19 is finally rid of this little girls who luckily miscarried twins 4 months ago and he can now start over. So Dh was talking with police and just not able to get to me via phone/text until he was on his way home, except he was going to bring ss19 here for the day but then decided it would not do well to have ss here. Anyhow, he made it home, told me what happened this morning with ss & gf and so on and I can see it all now and how I over reacted. I called in and took tomorrow off work and we are going to enjoy the last day the boys are in school just being together.

Good came from today. I wish I was more stable to not react over everything. Wink Pisces, ya gotta love us.