Is the BM in Your Life A Stepmom?
BM is my workout buddy, and she was telling me HORRIBLE stories about her life as a stepparent. She has 4 skids.. their mom HATES BM. They are not allowed to speak to BM or they will be grounded. Kids must be exchanged with cops present.. It sounds like a complete nightmare. It's just weird to think of it the other way around. As bad as things used to be in my situation, they were never that bad! And obviously things have changed a lot. Anyway....
Any of your BM's stepmoms?
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No. Somehow our trashy,
No. Somehow our trashy, chunky, refuses to grow up BM still manages to catch single men and trap them by getting knocked up. So far, that's been her meal ticket in life. CS, social services, and mommy and daddy still help pay her rent. She's 43.
What I don't get is:
1- How does she find these single men with no kids?
2- How does she get them in bed? They are all far better looking and far better off in life than her!
3- How do they not smell the crazy on her?
Or, maybe they do smell the crazy and thats what they like. Thinking they are going to get some hot freaky shit in bed.... instead they get a life sentence!
I'm assuming no because I've
I'm assuming no because I've never heard DH's kids talk about any stepsiblings.
Nope, but I'm sure if she was
Nope, but I'm sure if she was her situation would be different.
It's always different in her mind.
Oh God. The nightmare is real
Oh God. The nightmare is real then?
I'm so sorry.
Bm1 has been a stepmom for a
Bm1 has been a stepmom for a while. But that's all I know about her. The way I hear oldest two skids talk they all get along pretty well. Bm2 just remarried 8 months ago after only dating the guy two months. He has 4 kids. Life isn't blending into the happy family they were expecting. You can't expect automatic sunshine and unicorns with a child that's been raised on a pedestal and pretty much as an only child to be able to adjust sharing And being fair after two months. From what I hear from ss its a mess.
Lol! Well, believe me, it
Lol! Well, believe me, it took YEARS. I didn't talk to her for about 4 years cause we hated each other. DH didn't speak to her either (they still don't really speak.) Anyway I really just started dealing with her because I was tired of MIL doing it. She'd always get SS10 without telling us and then just drop him on us. So she and I started talking about a year and a half ago just about visitation and such. We got along fine, no drama. Then it slowly went to babysitting each other's kids (She has another kid, not with DH, and I have two with DH). And we somehow just grew to be friends. I like talking to her and whatnot. So I ended up asking her if she'd ever wanna run with me cause I need a workout buddy and she said yes. Pretty weird!
No, BM is not also a
No, BM is not also a stepparent.
There is no way in hell she would tolerate being married to someone who has to send all his money elsewhere to support some woman and kid(s). She's far too greedy to put up with that.
Ahhhhh, the irony in that, huh??
Yes, she has an 11-year-old
Yes, she has an 11-year-old SD that lives on the other side of the country and whom she sees maybe 4 weeks total out of the year. She wants the kid to call her "mom" (and allows SS14 and SS8 to call her DH "dad), but heaven forbid they even acknowledge me as part of the family! She has such a double standard.
Apparently the kid is visiting now, because when DH talked to SS14 a couple nights ago, SS14 was saying how his mom was all med at her SD because she has attitude. BM also had $10 missing from her wallet and swears it was SD. Oh well, serves her right.
yep - which makes it hard for
yep - which makes it hard for me to understand why she does what she does (like letting ss live at her parents and not keeping her house clean..).
i don't talk much to her so i wouldn't know if she has issues with her husbands baby mama. certain females have kids that shouldn't, and we get to deal with them :/
NO. I think BM is holding
NO. I think BM is holding out for someone that will support her. I still have hopes that BM will marry a guy with 4 at home daughters though!