I'd love to say 'you wouldn't believe what's going on now...' but, I know
that there is nothing that can surprise us any longer..right?
Okay, so BM has contacted FMIL and stated that FDH is sneaking out of my bed at night and going to her (parent's) house (where she lives) to sleep with her stating "f*** (his mother, father, step-mother, me (of course, and i believe...his sister)" and that he only wants to be with her...
Also that I have sent her nasty text messages and posted weird things on my Facebook.
Now, I rarely post on Facebook, because I have no friends from this girl telling lies, so I mostly talk to family and long-distance friends...I would never post anything on her Facebook, but oh wait...here's the weird thing I posted "I am happy, I love my life, please quit wasting yours trying to bring me down." Perhaps that was inappropriate, but honestly, it was therapeutic for me since I never get to deliver my side of the story unless it is to you wonderful ladies.
As well, I have NEVER text messaged her except one time when SS2's medication was left at my house and FDH was at work.
And furthermore, FDH has NO interest in BM..I trust him 100% completely, as he does with me. He wouldn't spend time with her if he was paid to, and he certainly would not 'sneak out' to see her.
Wouldn't it make sense though, that if he wanted to be with her, he would just....BE with her.
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Your picture is adorable btw,
Your picture is adorable btw, i love seeing smiles and kisses
!!
He was hardly with her when he was 'with' her, she's been insane from the get-go and threatened to kill herself if he left her, so his attempts were met with fear of guilt....Too bad ! :X
ha, that was horrible....in any case, you're a doll, thank you so much
Well, he got very upset when
Well, he got very upset when his mother called accusing him, it's very stressful to deal with nearly no one believing you...well, he eventually reminded his mother of what kind of person he is...and i mean, that was a crazy situation...his own mother?
In any case, he is okay now, he's just as stressed as I with this entire situation...and, we're trying to be strong together, but it's hard when we're sort of alone except for the support of our families...(when his isn't being manipulated by her)...
well, verbatim he has said 'she is so crazy, where does it end?'
Yeah, how exactly would
Yeah, how exactly would someone miss that? I can see maybe stretching
the truth about something that nobody could verify, but, hello, wouldn't you notice if he got up and snuck out? What a
cuckoo!
I know, we never get to tell
I know, we never get to tell our side of the story, EVER! I also feel like you...if he wants her...more power to him.
I mean, if a man doesn't want to be with me, I CAN HANDLE IT. I don't have to get pregnant, fake cancer, or threaten him with child support just to keep him.
She's obviously created her own delusion and she's trying to get people to believe her anti-reality.
when bm and my bf/bd first
when bm and my bf/bd first started living together i had that happen all of the time. she would say that he went there on his way to work which she knew his schedule because he was offshore and it stayed the same so that would make me think hmmm, but i have caught her in so many lies it is ridiculous.
she told me that he was with her on a particular day and i know for fact that he was home all day and all nite did not leave at all. she has said that he has called her and said that he did not love me and that he was leaving me for her.
well a few years passed and now she calls me on occasions and asks for advice and tells me her problems. i am glad that it is this way instead of her causing issues. i thank God that bd did not allow her to treat me badly. he told her that if u can not respect her then we will have to meet at a public place to pick up and drop of kids and if u even try to touch her i will run over u!!!