well, i can honestly say that my SO/BM/SD situation is looking better and better!
SO & I are trying to work things out. BM & I still get along.. and SD spent last night with me, some of my friends and their little girls...

Last night FSD4 and I invited (*names are changed)
Jamie & daughter Kylee (4)
Angela & daughter Falicity (2)
Melissa & daughter Sammi
Patty & Daughter Ashley (3) SD Laney (5) SD Kaylie(7)
My sister Kim * niece Gracen (3)
Melissa & daughter Brooklyn (3)

for an ALL GIRL no boys allowed slumber party!
BM & her friend and friends 1 yr old little girl even made the hour and a half drive for it!

We made tye-dye shirts, cookies, played Limbo & red-rover, barbies & babies!
Watched tinkerbell and princess & the frog!
the younger girls camped out in FSD's floor while the "mommys" crashed in the living room on air matresses and my bed!

after the girls went to sleep "mommys" watched old chick flicks and pigged out while "husband-bashing" and gossiping!Mixed drinks were made and it was alot of fun!
BM& her friend & friends baby didnt stay the night... but was there the majority of it!
it was so relaxing to just hang out with friends.. and so much fun to see "our kids" play together!!

Clean up was even easy due to the help of all the moms! (very thankful to them) I just feel sorry for Patty... all the hubby's stayed at their river cabin and had "guys night" which included beer, bonfire, & shooting pool! Patty said she went out to the cabin today, walked in and walked right back out! Called her DH and told him to go collect all their beer cans! & wash & fold all the blankets and open the windows while he did so, apparently 7 guys can really stink up a cabin! UGH!
Guys can be so sloppy! haha

hope everyone else had a great weekend!