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step ups post made me think of this

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 10:00am

what do you agree with that bm does (seriously). bm does not give sd 14 the opportunity to "grow up" although i obviously did not "know" her dd like she does, i disagreed with out talking to bm, and gave sd the "tools" to act out....long story read my previous posts-it irritated me to no ends mainly made me irritated about the choices i made with sd and flat out told sd14 i now see why bm does what she does with her.

i've been married to dh for quite some time and honestly i now can see why she treats sd14 the way she does because you give her an inch and she takes a yard and is honestly NOT MATURE enough.

although this is the only thing i REALLY agree with her on that i can think of off the top of my head.

without sarcasm, what do you agree with bm on?

had to ask

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Submitted by Asher10 on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 10:09am

well gosh do i have to pick just ONE thing I agree with her on?there are SO many ya know! :sick:
i agree with her teaching sd how to manipulate people because it will help her get a really cushy job in corporate America someday.yeah i'm making my head hurt trying to think of even one thing i agree with that bm does and i'm coming up empty.

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Submitted by alwaysanxious on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 10:15am

I agree that SD has a smart mouth and doesn't talk to adults sometimes, like she should.

I agree that the skids have too many material things for their age.

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 10:38am

rofl Biggrin

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Submitted by somerg on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 11:24am

skids told us that they were telling mom when she said "your too young" for this or that (convo was pertaining to looking for scholarships for college) and (yeah i already have a few for my dd) skids told her that, and she said well if smom is such a good mom, go live with her. dh told them next time tell her ok and call us up.

i'm thinking NO DON'T COME LIVE WITH ME PLEASE!!!

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Submitted by skylarksms on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 11:29am

I guess I agree with BM not allowing SS to work more hours at his job. I am not sure why she won't but I told SS it is because school is important and that comes first.

Now, what I DON'T understand is why it is the opposite with SD. SD dropped out of HS to work, work, work. According to SS, BM is making her work as many hours as she can get!

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Submitted by Stick on Wed, 03/16/2011 - 6:46pm

There is nothing that BM does that I support. Sometimes to SD I try to put a positive spin on BM's actions, so as not to hurt SD. But really, I don't like her. She is a professional victim, selfish and self-serving, immature and purposely obtuse. She's a deadbeat mom who only cares about making sure she gets to keep her money or gets money without caring how it affects SD. She's a liar and a manipulator, and every time I try to think about something positive to say, I come up with negative adjectives.

The only only thing I can give her is that she can be thoughtful... and I HATE even writing that because her thoughtfulness is only connected to appearances or the bare minimum. It's a child giving a child a gift. UGH.

Sorry!