Been in this relationship with BD for 6 years. Met SD and fell in love with her immediately. I have 3 kids of my own, which also took to her wonderfully. BM Has been bitter fromt he start, always texting horrible things to make my fiance feel bad for his kid. Bashing me, calling me and y kids names, while all this time her child has been treated with the utmost respect, and had been loved and cared for as my wn I dont beleive a child must be bioligically yours to have loove for them, I just treat a child as I want mine to be treated. Doesnt always work that way, UNFORTUNATL!!!