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THE BLAME GAME

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 12:33pm

A few months ago BM said to DH "Stay the f**K away, they dont want you around" and all the SK's cell numbers have changed. We haven't talked to any of the SK's in about 6-7 months. I must admit, it's been nice. No Drama! But now it is begging the sh*t out of me that the SK's have been on Twitter writing things about DH. On Father's Day "F**k my Dad" "Sorry excuse of a Father" ect...then a few days ago "Haven't seen or talk to my Dad in a few months and I can honestly say I could care less." They are putting the blame on him. He did try calling and texting and thats when they blocked him, then changed their numbers. He said he was going to back off since BM said "they dont want you around" Why are they putting blame on DH, when they know BM said to stay away.

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 12:44pm

Yes, they know. BM posted it on Facebook too. How chidish! What now? Should DH get in touch with them. And tell them why he hasnt called? But I know it will only creat more drama with BM. She lives for this sh*t she has no life.

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Submitted by HadEnoughx5 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 12:39pm

Parental ALIENATION at it's finest. The skids only know, what their BM tells them. Divorce Poison and Welcome Back Pluto, DVD by Richard Warshack is the best in explaining PAS.

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Submitted by hanneyh1 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 12:48pm

If they have emails, I would have DH send a heartfelt one to each of them basically stating what happened (the truth about what their BM told him) so they can hear his side of the story. I would also have him include his feelings on what BM told him as well as his feelings of what they are posting. I would also state toward the end that if they really don't want him in their lives, then so be it, but to at least stop the hurtful messages on Twitter and such because even though they may not want him around, that is no reason to go putting him down because he does want to be around and he does still care about them. He is just letting go because it's what they want and what will make them happy and it's not fair to go around bashing him in public internet space when he is only doing what they want for them to be happy.

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Submitted by SMto5 on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 1:00pm

Thanks Hanneyh1, I will talk to DH about sending emails. And realmccoy, This is also true. Damn if you, damn if you don't!

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Submitted by Annanymous on Fri, 07/27/2012 - 1:12pm

DH should post on his facebook how bad it hurts to be blocked on cell phones and told "we don't want anything to do with you" by your kids then drug over the coals and not even called on father's day because no matter how many times you call, your number is blocked and they refuse to visit or unblock you. How he hopes his kids never experience that with THEIR OWN children one day because he loves them so much he would never wish that heartbreak on THEM and he hopes one day eventually they will stop blocking his number then claiming he doesn't call because he misses them so much.