the day before we left, ss had tball, and it was our night. bm showed up before us with ss (it was her day to pick him up from day care and take him even though its our night) and she informs my fil that she is going to tell my dh that she will be keeping him for the night because she is going camping in the morning. DH gets there and she approaches him, he says no that we are leaving for 8 days, he wont see him its our night, and she can pick him up in the morning. BM flips out, and starts yelling, scoops ss up and leaves with him. we called the police and just filed a report with witness as to what occurred for going to court purposes.

we left the next day for jamaica, we did not call at all while we were gone, and there were no voice mails from her. We get to the connecting airport, and DH calls bm to talk to ss, but he is at daycare. DH hangs up and she calls right back to say that its technically her weekend and hopefully he doesn't think hes getting him. He says no thats fine, we will continue with regular schedule, she goes on to try and complain about why DH didnt call, Um hello idiot i was out of the country?! anyways, he talks to ss when we get to the local airport, and she tries to harass dh some more and he hangs up on her.

Last night, dh picks up ss from daycare since it is our night, they get home we have dinner and then we are all playing together. BM keeps calling. Finally bm leaves a message, i need to know if i can pick up ss early im leaving the state to visit my grandparnts. Dh calls back to leave a message because she doesnt answer, ss is with smnikki downstairs and we are busy, but that is fine be here at 830am. also, when you get back we are going to have a serious talk about your behavior and what you did at tball. She shortly after starts calling repeatedly. We call the police and file again, this time for harassment.

the main thing is that i have inside info about her, and for some reason the are terminating ss's daycare next week. We dont know if she is not paying or what the heck is going on. She will not return any phone calls today. What should we do?