Psycho bitches
Do you realize if anybody who wasn't a step mother came on this site they would think we were all psycho bitches! I am saying that laughing 
but it is true. Even tho I have left my husband he still has the ability to make it all my fault - if only I could cope with it , if only I just let the fact he loves me so much be enough, other women could cope, he would cope. I feel like I'm going mental.
Typical that now I have left he has been on the phone to them asking for their help. And he has asked his youngest why she ignored me and my daughter whilst out shopping months ago. Of course she said she hadn't seen us. So I said and if she did see us do you honestly think she would have said hello at which point he looked to the floor and said probably no. But I could scream, why didn't he ring her then and say thats really not nice or nicely ask did you see her as she thought you'd ignored her. Why do they wait till you have no emotional energy left before they act!
Not a good day 8(
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Speaking as a man, we like to
Speaking as a man, we like to face situations with a clear head and an unemotional manner. When the woman in our life presents us with a situation that she has emotional energy about, you communicate that to us. Then we have that emotional energy. Some of us are not equipped to handle this(just stating facts). This situation requires a choice as we see it, act on emotion and possibly create a disaster or wait for the emotional energy to dissipate and approach it with a clear head. Many of us choose the later. We have been taught this by our fathers from time we were little. "Don't act on impulse." "Well you could have thought that through a little better."
I don't know if your husband is that kind or not but we generally become Disney dads at some point.
Yes thats exactly how he acts
Yes thats exactly how he acts and I can recognize its not because he doesn't care about me, its exactly as you say he just hopes it will go away. What I don't understand is if a man does love you and can see your struggling ie not sleeping, obv down and upset etc this doesn't make hm act. If I saw my husband being affected by a situation I had control over I would make it work or atleast say Ive recognized hes feeling like that. My husband would wake up in a morning and say did I hear you up in the night id say yes I couldn't sleep again and he would say 'oh right'. Move on lol. He's a sweety and I do love him but it will eventually make me ill.
PS Whats a disney dad?
Lol! In my defense, I wasn't
Lol! In my defense, I wasn't a "psycho bitch" until I got stuck with SD in my life. Hahaha! }:)
Does OCD fall under "psycho"?
Does OCD fall under "psycho"? I am being "accused" by DH and SS of being OCD at times and honestly I thought I was a normal housekeeper before meeting them, now everything about skids and sdog smells and I go nuts cleaning and putting out smell goods to make my home smell livable. I admit to being sensitive to smell but I am a caregiver and can handle old people's poop so if I am going nuts here, it's worse then my job. lol
No, not going nuts, boys and
No, not going nuts, boys and dogs stink. The boys more than the dogs. Testosterone has a funk and teen boys are full of it. Best bet is put a Renuzit Super Odor Killer room deodorizer in their room. It's not a great smell, but much better than boy funk.