Success!!
I am freezing eggs and moving on! I told DH that I want to leave. I am tired of this household, and tired of not having a partner. DH is dedicated to having a life of no accountability for himself or his kids, while I break my back to keep the dysfunction functional. Nope! I'm out.
Today he decided that SD should stay home from school on Monday (2 days from now) because she has earned it, because "life is hard for kids these days". Huh? LMAO. Just further confirmation that I do not want to raise children with him. What kind of unemployable BS adults is he trying to (not) raise but feed/clothe/send out into the world?? Anyway, not my problem anymore!
Sorry if it sounds callous, I'm just that over it all. Time to think prioritize myself and my mental health.
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You and your physical/mental
You and your physical/mental health should always be your first priority. All the best to you!
Brave!
Good for you!!! Leave the dysfunction and find a better place for you. Good job in NOT having kids with a poor father.
Best of luck and hopefully blue skies ahead for you!
Good for you!
You deserve a happy life and you will find it!
Today you have saved yourself
Today you have saved yourself from what would have probably been a life of misery and regret. I applaud you!!
Congratulations.
Enjoy your new idiot and baggage free life.
Good luck to you in your new
Good luck to you in your new and hopefully much happier and less stressful life!
Congrats
Please let us know when you are settled into your new life.
I'm glad you're putting
I'm glad you're putting yourself first - about time!
He sounds as if he doesn't believe you're serious about leaving.
Congratulations!
For putting yourself first. He doesn't deserve you!
Congratulations and warning
So, fabulous that you have a plan and are willing to take action. Do you think he will fight you on this? Its very common for partners to make a full blown fight when we get fed up and leave.
Yes, he will
He probably will fight me. He's already attempting to make the case for how he's the perfect husband. Unless I play along and pretend to be the problem he will fight me for sure. Classic narcissist.
I am always sad to hear when
I am always sad to hear when a marriage ends, but very happy that you are taking your life back!