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Submitted by Shopaholic on Mon, 08/27/2007 - 12:52pm

So it was my SS's Birthday on friday, now earlier in the week I asked him what he wanted for his birthday and what he wanted to do, and he told me that his mom promised she would take him to the amusement park with a friend and some of his family well when we got him back from her I asked him if he had fun and he said no that his mom did not take him and she wanted to wait til school starts so he can invite more friends and he told me she is just lying she is not going to take me.

Over compensation, does any one else have this problem?

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Submitted by Shopaholic on Thu, 08/23/2007 - 10:48am

Ok, so my DH over compensates constantly for BM's lack of parenting. BM gives no discipline or shows no love towards SS. All discipling has to be done at our house, DH has talked to BM many times about situations that have arisen at school or daycare where SS would come home with disciplinary notes to see what BM has done to try and correct the issue and say or we talked about it and that would be it.

No one cares about SS

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Submitted by Shopaholic on Fri, 08/10/2007 - 10:55am

Hello I am new here and I need some help or just someone to listen and give support or understanding. I have a stepson and at times I feel like I am the only one who cares and it is so fusterating. DH pretty much only talks to him if he has too, otherwise he just lets him do whatever he wants, so he ends up playing video games and watching TV all day long, and when he visits BM she sleeps all day or is on the computer (she does not have a job), so she lets him do whatever he wants too (this is what he tells me). I feel like I am the only one who gives him structure.

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