My husband and I had a friend who recently went through a divorce. The main reason of their divorce was because his wife wanted kids and he didn't. He had always made it pretty clear and this is one of those classic examples of you need to talk about this stuff before you get married and you need to go into a marriage not expecting somebody to change their mind about important issues like this.

His wife met somebody and remarried within a couple months and started having kids. Our friend enjoyed his solitude and worked on his hobbies and enjoying living alone with his cat and his disposable income. Then he met his next wife. 

We haven't seen our friend since he met her, they've been together just under two years and just got married this past weekend. He didn't tell anybody. 

His new wife was a single mom with two kids under 10 and is very much into CrossFit going to the gym and fitness. She constantly puts pictures of herself on his social media and TBH she seems pretty obnoxious and full of herself. Our friend is wealthy, owns his own house, and has no biokids. By BM standards she caught herself a whale.

I have no idea why our friend who is very calm and introverted and didn't want kids would end up with a obnoxious single mom with two kids under ten. Since we haven't heard from him since he started dating her I'm guessing she's pretty domineering about his life and I wonder now if we should reach out and see if he's okay.