At the end of the day, he's accepted an offer I made... which ended up mostly paying his lawyer's bill... we didnt have to go to trial, it got settled in mediation. His lawyer strongly suggested he yake the offer. It was less than half of what id have been legally accountable for if we'd gone to trial and the judge decided not to reduce equalization etc... and the divorce was filed. Waiting for the order.

In the end, he realized hiw badly he messed up..and broke down in the mediation claiming he did everything I asked.. and it got pointed out that the only thing I asked, that he did, was leave. Lol

I'm completing the renos he started in 2019... I've got money in the bank.. i like my job.. my kids are happy.. I'm happy.. life is good!