Ever since SS21 yelled FU! to DH over the phone, we've heard nothing from SS21. Probably because we shut off his cell phone, which we were paying for.

DH balked at first. How would SS21 call home? How would he call his PO? How would he hear back from employers? (SS21 recently got fired for yelling FU! to his boss). Then I said, "How would he call his dad and tell him to FU?" I swear, DH must think SS21 is a bonafide RETARD. No, he's just a lazy, entitled, under-educated, addict-alcoholic.

I reminded DH that when your adult son yells FU! on the phone that you pay for, it may be a SIGN that it's time for him to grow up and get his own phone. Duh.

That's OK, SS21's mommy came through for him! Yes, the alcoholic, abusive bipolar BM is now in full "enable" mode, to save her son from his evil father and the bitch stepmother (me!), who shut off his phone "for no reason" .

I am happy that BM will finally get to reap the rewards of the son she raised. The new relationship will last just as long as it takes SS21 to drink through BMs liquor cabinet. About a week, I predict.

But the indignities continue. This weekend was a family wedding, and SS21's probation officer wouldn't let him out of the state to attend. Seems SS21 didn't pay his court costs, or take his anger management classes, or submit to the court-mandated drug/alcohol testing.

Life is so unfair for SS21.

The wedding reception was a riot. SD24 made sure to call the bride a few days before to isolate DH, BD12 and me at a table away from DHs four adult daughters. Seems SD24 cannot even sit with us anymore--hey, I'm not complaining! DH and I apologized to the bride's parents and they just rolled their eyes. They know that SD24 is a carbon copy of her bipolar mother. A real bitch-on-wheels.

During the dinner, DHs phone kept ringing--his adult daughters were calling him from the next table over! Two of them had gotten into a fight (of course). They kept asking him to "come over here" which he did--once. To DH's credit, he remained with me and BD12 throughout much of the reception. He seemed irritated and embarrassed about his loser adult daughters. I think most people would be--these women are beasts. More and more they resemble Cinderella's wicked stepsisters.

Today, the cocaine-addict SD18 called looking for money for a "new job she got in Switzerland." I guess, after being fired from 8 jobs this year alone, it's time for the "geographical cure" huh? She wants DH to pay her way to Switzerland--yeah, right!

Well, to my horror and amazement, DH actually approached me about "helping SD18 out." I think my intense reaction scared him. We are already paying $800/month on SD18's rehab bill, and are on a tight budget--mostly because DH gave so much of our money to his loser adult kids over the past two years. HELP HER OUT???? ARE YOU INSANE???

Sometimes I think my DH is brain-dead. His adult kids sure are. Ever since DH stopped handing our hard-earned money to them (one month clean & sober(!)--I should give DH some sort of AA chip), his adult kids have been spinning more and more out of control. They whine, pressure DH, guilt DH, and continually come up with compelling reasons why DH should give them money.

Switzerland takes the prize, so far!

Thanks for reading my latest rant...I appreciate this community so darn much!