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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 7:09am

Well its been another weekend of hell.My ss asked if he can go to his moms so i said yes as long as you take the bus home on sunday and made it very clear to him and he was fine with it.So i took him out and bought him some new shoes for school and then took him to bus and he got on just fine with no problem.Well sunday came around and guess who didnt get off the bus as we sat there and waited.So we get home and guess who calls.SS said he missed the bus and wanted us to pick him up.Dad said no.I also gave him 40.00 to get a haircut and bus fair there and back.But he came back with no haircut!!Where is the 40.00?ss mom drove him home which is fine but not to our house as she has been physically abusive and always yells and screams.So i assume some money went to bm for gas to drive him home.So dh told him this morning that bm is not allowed around our house and he started crying he is 16 years old and knows what his bm is like.She has been her once before and i let that one go hoping it will never happen again but i dont want her at my home just like we are not allowed at her home and because she is unpredictable and psycho.

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Sia's picture

Submitted by Sia on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 12:24pm

Sign me up...... Wink

Seriously, the kid was probably crying b/c he might likely be afraid of BM's reaction. If she is physically abusive, he probably is scared to death of her.

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Submitted by dan_nicole on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 12:53pm

youre crazy. My situation has gotten so out of control I marched right to the doctor and told him I feared I was going to lash out and hurt either BM or DH and I was put on Zoloft. lol
Do you think she would take his money?

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 3:15pm

woul absoulutly take his money!!!

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Submitted by dan_nicole on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 7:09pm

is bs. She sounds very controlling and needs to be put in her place. DH needs to say something to her

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Submitted by namaste123 on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 3:25pm

We learned this very early over only $10 (not a lot, but enough to learn our lesson when we asked the child about it and he said "I don't know, mom put it somewhere")... do not give the child $$$ for any reason unless it is to be spent immediately (like for the bus) or it is to be spent when they are with you.

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 3:31pm

i had to give him busfare to get home and made it quite clear to him that he was to use it for busfare because we didnt want any excuses as to why he couldnt get on the bus.Also when my dh told ss that his psycho mom wasnt allowed at our house he slammed the door in his fathers face.And when he phoned last night to ask for a ride dh said no and he hung up on him Again...

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Submitted by namaste123 on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 3:37pm

What if SS and Psycho were informed that SS could be dropped off, but Psycho would have to behave and let SS get out of the car and come up to the house on his own without any incident created by Psycho.

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 3:43pm

wouldnt listen.She does what she wants she has pulled my hair slapped me told my own bs i was a slut and yells and screams names at me everytime i see her.

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Submitted by dan_nicole on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 7:16pm

Your husband/bf should not let that evil bitch do that to you. And if it happens again do what you need to do to protect yourself, and if thats having her arrested then so be it. Youre a human and deserve respect too

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Submitted by namaste123 on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:22pm

You should never accept that behavior. Did you call the police. If not, next time press charges. You shouldn't have to deal with that and she does it because she gets away with it. Looks like she is starting to rub off on your SS as well. He needs to see that there are conseqences for that kind of behavior. He needs to see that if mommy goes around putting her hands on someone she suffers the consequences of the law.

Please excuse my vulgarity but F""K THAT!!! I'm the type of person that feels that like "Alright, come on, come at me. I want you too so you can pay the price for violence and lack of self control!!! So I'm gonna let you do it so i can sit back and watch when they are taking you off in handcuffs!"

I'm not psycho, but I'm crazy enough that I WOULD have her drop him off so she can be psycho and abusive and have to pay for it.

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:20pm

see why i dont want her at my house.I didnt call the police at the time because i didnt want the kids to hate me and this took place in front of all of them.Now i look back and wish i would have called and charged her.I am scared of what i might do to her.

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Submitted by namaste123 on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:24pm

Let her be crazy and you do nothing except call the police.

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:26pm

next time for sure with no hesitation.

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Submitted by namaste123 on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:28pm

a black eye if that's what it took to see her go to jail.

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Submitted by sam on Mon, 02/02/2009 - 4:29pm

time is coming i can guarantee it.She wont ever stop.