How are Skids annoying you today?
I'll go first! SD11 is still on the laptop 12+ hours a day and doesn't do a single thing all day. And I mean nothing! I'm also am starting to believe that she wants to be a wife to my DH. She sits there and listens to every conversation we have and applies her "2 cents" so DH ends up talking to just her because I leave the room. Her school pushed classes back a week so she's here with us and I was looking forward to the quality time alone with DH but I let her have it. I don't even fight for it anymore. We went to the mall for school clothes and they were standing like a couple, hugging and holding hands, while I trailed behind with DD4 and DD6mo. While buying her clothes, DH discovered that she hasn't been bathing (which I had been saying for 3 months now) because her neck was filthy. We get home and he actually scrubbed her back and neck for her. I watched him do it in disbelief. My God when will it end?
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Ok, that bathing thing is
Ok, that bathing thing is definitely weird. And what is it with dirty kids?? My SD10's hair is downright disgusting. We've tried different shampoos, cutting it shorter, telling her how long to rinse.....no matter what, it's clumpy and gross ALL THE TIME.
I think every age has its own
I think every age has its own challenges in step land but I can honestly say that I am so glad I am past the ages of 11 to 15. I think they are the worst! especially when you are married to a Disney dad who doesn't want their little girl to grow up or have a SD that wants to be a mini wife. It may be harder in your case because you have two little ones of your own but I remember Esty always wanting to walk next to DH whenever we went somewhere. It was like she would almost try to nudge her way in between us. Long story short I spent quite a few times getting upset and eventually I just said some thing to My DH And he made a much more conscious effort of walking next to me. It took LSD quite a while to figure it out but she gets it now she understands that he and I walk side-by-side and she can either be next to him on the other side or behind us.
That's weird that he knew her
Why did it take a clothes shopping trip for him to realize her neck was dirty? I hope he wasn't in the dressing room. Why did he bathe her? Does she need help wiping her butt too? Um no. Your DH is crossing the line.
DH can tell when SD11 hasn't showered because she REEKS. And no, he doesn't bathe her.
**EDIT: I just realized this is the PORN DAD from your last blog. Why are you still around? She is being groomed and or sexually abused. Call CPS and get out!
AdultSkid's mere existence is
AdultSkid's mere existence is causing drama in my marriage and I'm so angry. I thought things would be at least a little better.