My DH and I have been going to counseling with our pastor for the past month or so. This Friday, he actually offered some GREAT advice. DH has a tendancy to be too easy with SD15 and I feel she gets away with WAAAYYYY too much. Our pastor had us reverse roles and asked me to pretend to be DH when confronting SD15 with an issue, and asked DH to do the same. We did and he suggested that when dealing with SD15, DH plays 'bad cop' and I play 'good cop.' He feels this would help because DH always tends to be the Captain saver of everything that she does. I thought it was something to at least share with you guys. So, hopefully it will help out. I'll keep you posted.