So I'm a total B*TCH! :-)
My SO and his wife have been separated 3 years...we've been living together for one. Met through his daughter who really loves me well after they were separated. STB ex-wife didn't care at all about trying to get him back until I came into the picture and then she went all out this past Nov. Has tried and pulled everything to try and get him back, including totally alienating his kids. Their marriage had been over for years even before he left. The only reason he stayed as long as he did was because he was always gone traveling for his job, so he didn't have to put up with her too much, and he didn't want to hurt his kids. Anyway...
The beast is still on the rampage. And she is extremely pissed off that my SO pays for my cell phone bill for the cell he calls me on. I have two. The one I have had forever and it's the one I pay for, is a National Plan that my SO uses to call his daughter, mother, brother and friends out of state. The one he pays for is a cell phone only good in this state. And he uses it to call me without having to call a long distance number. She got ahold of the cell records sometime back, and is furious that he's paying for it. She leaves me all kinds of nasty messages, and claims that as long as he is paying for it with marital funds, she will call my number whenever she pleases (btw...attorney says it's not marital funds as they are separated). Anyway, I got fed up. Since my SO and her are the only ones who use that number, I changed my message to say...
"You have reached Rae and SO. We cannot come to the phone right now, but if you leave us a message we’ll get back to you as soon as we can."
Last night she went off the deep end after a conversation with my SO, where he finally hung up on her because she's nuts, and just wanted to beat him up.
She called his phone a bunch of times, and then did her usual...called mine...twice.
Here is the message she left me. "This is the "beast", SO's WIFE, I’m calling for MY husband, and you need to change your message or I will be having his attorney or my attorney calling this number and um he needs to call home tonight and he needs to call home right away….thank you.
Too funny. I would love to hear the attorney’s response to that one. I can see it now. Beast: “I called my husband’s girlfriend’s cell phone to harass her because my husband refuses to talk to me, and her message mentions my husband and I want you to make her change it.” Attorney: “Are you out of you flipping mind?”
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Hmmm...
Someone needs a dose of reality!
~ Anne ~
"Love, having no geography, knows no boundaries."
(Truman Capote)
A Real Fruit Loop
Can you say the word "Control Freak". OMG
That's it in a nutshell
I don't think she really still loves him...I think she HATES that she cannot control him anymore. The reason he hung up on her to begin with is because she kept questioning him about our vacation plans and other events in our life. He told her...it's none of your business...it's none of your business...it's none of your f*cking business!!!!! I heard the other end of the conversation. He asked her if that was all she had for him, and she started on some other BS, and he said, I'm done and hung up. It drives her absolutely crazy. He told me he has a dozen calls from her today. He just doesn't take them anymore. The only reason he called last night was because I knew she'd been calling and emailing...claiming she needed to talk to him about the boys and the property...so I really pushed him to call so she would ease up a little. Never works though. Honestly she is so crazy, I can sometimes hear her screams from 350 miles away, and thank goodness she does live that far!!!
I have one of those!
Even after the divorce was final she will still call and ask to speak with HER husband. I would simply reply "you remarried???? Congrats, but he is not here, why would YOUR husband be here? MY husband is here, you must be confused"... and hang up. So, you are a bitch you say??? Nah, just tired of the BS I am sure, as are the rest of us...
Daddys Gurl-
Life is as sweet as you sweeten it.
OMG!!! LOL
I can't wait to try that one. The legal junk should be through soon, and we are hoping/planning to be married next summer (can't get up to the arctic over the winter...well we could, but no one else would be willing to join us
)....and I am sure the beast will keep on and on....
How did she get the records
Can we say nutjob....Well its true they don't realize what they had until it belongs to someone else. I just wonder who wrote the manual these women read that says going Psycho and acting like a loonatic is the way to win a man back? I would be so tempted to change that message to " This is Rae and SO and I are OOOOOHHH BABY THAT"S THE SPOT! (AND OTHER VERY LISPY COMMENTS MAYBE A MOAN) leave a message" Since this number is not one you provided for a contact and it isn't supposed to be for her use, but thats just a really funny thought.
Records
She had an old Power of Attorney! He gave it to her because he was always gone...remote locations working in the oil industry, unreachable for a lot of the time. She abused it while they were still together and she is still abusing it...even though she has been directed to stop by both attorneys, and the POA has been revoked. She has committed fraud with it, deeding two valuable pieces of joint property to their kids, to try and get it out of the divorce settlement, among other things. We're just waiting for the court date to deal with it all.
Oh and I have been soooo tempted to leave a more provoking message since no one else uses that number, but I'm trying to somewhat behave :-)...still tempted though.
In My Case
Our message says this is the (our name family) and named off each and every one of us in the household in an extremly and annoying happy tone. LOL!!!!
It obviously got to BM. She decided to compete and had the children record a message with their voices on her machine. When DH called he left a message that just said that the kids sounded so cute. I KNOW she was pissed LOL.
Girl, You and i are in the
Girl,
You and i are in the same boat. He is her husband when its convenient for him to be. Which happens to be when she is getting on your nerves. She didn't want him, but now since she can't control his emotions and he is starting a life with someone else she wishes to raise a million dollars worth of hell. I know all about. Oneday she was calling fifty million times cursing me out and just being stupid and immature so one night i fixed her i transfered my phone calls to the police station.:)
If raising children was going to be easy, it never would have started with something called labor!