I did.t have time to reply and I wanted to share a story.

First I do think that it us gross that a dad would get his child the same thing as his wife. Just too gross. I also Thu.k the majorty will think the same even if it is their child together still gross!

Now my story. Years ago when my kids weren't even in school yet, it was vday and my dad and little SIS stopped by she was maybe 6 or 7. Dad had bought mom and me something for vday. Mine was smaller and u didn't expect anything. My SIS got it out for me and got the wrong one it was moms but dad didn't realize this. When I found out later. I felt really bad that I got moms and she got mine. And they are my real parents and still together. I wouldn't knowly want my dad to give me something bigger or better over my mom. She us his lover not me.

My mom didn't say much but could tell she was disappointed. So even though i am my moms really dd she was still disappointed that I got the bigger and better one. I don't blame her either.

I had to share as some people seem to think that if it was their real child with their dhs they woyld feel different and I'm here to say NO WAY is that true!!

Thanks for letting me get that out.