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i onow this is a tad petty but when it happens over and over it gets old

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 10/30/2013 - 1:23pm

As some know my story about finding out my dad is not my dad I'm still waiting to pay off the results.

But in the mean time I've been trying really hard to not be mad at my mom and dad. I even invited them over which I don't do very ofter for anyone. They had a day in advance notice no big deal in our family. However at the last minute my brother decided he would have chili and they went over there. Yep they choose my brother over me yet again. We even told him he could bring his chili over to our house but nope!

My kids even came from collage to see everyone b/c I thought they were showing up.

It's not so much they didn't come but once again I was pushed out and disregarded. Dh told me that if he hadn't seen the behavior for himself all these years he would try to tell me that they didn't mean anything by it but he cant given the history of what he has seen.

Makes me so sad and rejected. It really did hurt. And they know how upset I am as I told them.off and they still haven't called or text me or anything. But they will wait a few days then call like nothing happened. But thus time I refuse to answer.

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Submitted by bearcub25 on Wed, 10/30/2013 - 1:45pm

Let their calls go to VM and texts ignored. Like we always say, you have to protect yourself.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 10/30/2013 - 2:34pm

I know I need to back off. Just so hard ya know. They are all I know as parents and they aren't into drugs or anything . I'm just so torn.

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Submitted by hurtandalone on Thu, 10/31/2013 - 9:16am

They don't have to be on drugs to be toxic people, trust me I know. I am estranged from my mother, and my MIL, GMIL, and FIL based on their horrid behavior, unadulterated by any substances. They are just rotten people.

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Submitted by purpledaisies on Wed, 10/30/2013 - 2:42pm

It's not an age thing this has happened my entire life. My mom resents me b/c she got Preggo with ne and had to hurry up and marry and she hates her life and blames me. And my dad is not my real dad . I've always been treated different.