This is a normally scheduled weekend with SS8 - so why is it that this whole concept of established EOW visitation seems to be foreign to her although she's been doing it for the last 6 years.

So DH calls her to find out what is going on about this weekend and stupid BM schedules a house showing when she's supposed to be dropping off SS. Apparently, her sister and brother-in-law are flying in to look at possibly buying her old house and then they're going out to dinner, and then when they're done, she'll bring SS to us. Her "best estimate is between 8 and 9."

This just irritates the hell out of me. She took her kids camping this past weekend and DH had asked her if he could get SS when they got back for the rest of the holiday since the in-laws are up. She said that would be fine. She told DH she would drop him off to us "sometime" Sunday evening. We wound up meeting her because she didn't leave on the 5 hour trip until 4PM - that was 9:30 when we finally got SS.

I can't stand that BM commits to do something and then expects DH to help out since she's already done so much. WTF! I am so irritated.