My separation agreement has been sent out. I am a little nervous. DH called this past Saturday to see how I was doing. I told him I was good, there was akward silence and then I got off the phone. He called 2 more times and left a message saying he just wanted to hear my voice and misses me. I didn't call back. Monday he went balistic. Called me at 3pm, then called non stop from 6pm-8:30pm (back to back). Leaving messages asking me to call him back, crying saying he misses me. I answered a couple of times around 7:30. He kept asking if I was seeing anyone, kept saying he missed me and that he was mad when I left and he's sorry he hurt me. He accused me of seeing my best friend since 7th grade (which is a guy)!!! And that best friend actually became his friend and they have hung out after the separation. Why does he think this? Because my best friend and his girlfriend broke up and now DH hangs out with her and she put it in his head that something was going on (because goodness love her, she is a paranoid, jealous freak (but i like her and we've always gotten along)). So WTF? Too much drama. I can't even believe DH started this crap with me after he screwed another woman 2 weeks after I left. So I told him to stop calling me and to leave me alone. I told him that at this point it was inappropriate to tell me he misses me and that its over and I am no longer his business (unless it has to do with the house). Then I got annoyed at 8:30pm and answered again. He said he was sorry for hurting me and he was crying and said he didn't care if I was seeing anyone, he just wanted to make sure I was ok. It was like a movie. You know, where they have to be nice to the hostage taker so they will calm down. So I was nice for about a minute and we got off the phone and he finally stopped calling. He didn't call yesterday so I hope that was a one time ordeal. I can't help but think he misses a clean house and home cooked meals or that his birthday is this Saturday and he wants attention. I am really trying to be civil, but this is the man that didn't want to work things out, it was over, screwed another woman, told me to go f myself and that he would never trust me because I left...So why now? Because I moved on and am happy with my life? YUCK. So now I am freaking out about when he gets the agreement. But other than that, life is great!!!