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My Last Evening at Home

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It goes a little something like this...SS and DH get home. DH is on the phone apologizing to someone and goes outside. He comes in the house and I ask whats wrong. SS and a couple of other kids made fun of one of SS's really good "friends". This friend has spent the night at our house, and is a good kid. This friend's Mom refuses to take SS anymore because SS doesn't behave and is mean to her son (but they are friends?). So today they called this kid fat, told him that he was jiggly, were making fun of his "boobs", ect. This is such a sweet kid, I was sick to my stomach. The daycare is a karate camp/daycare. The child LOVES karate, SS hates it. The child wants to quit because now he's embarrassed to change for class because they were making fun of him. So the little brat SS ruins this kids karate experience. Apparently 1 of the other kids was suspended and the parents have to pay for the suspended week. Because DH has a good friend that works at the camp, Im sure thats why SS wasn't suspended. DH's friend said that he almost smacked the shit out of SS. DH said he didn't know what to do anymore. I cried and said this was why I have to leave. SS admitted in therapy last year that kids called him a bully. I told DH that SS is a bully, at home, at school, and now at daycare. I told DH that Im glad he is finally seeing it. I just wish he saw it when I brought it up. So thats my last evening at "home". SS acting up making me know I have to go.

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While looking for apartments, my Dad's friend was fixing up his huge garage as an apartment. 2 bedrooms. Everything is redone and brand new. In my price range, all utilities included AND I can bring my dog, they are even putting up a fence so my dog can have a yard!!! Couldn't beat it, thats why I had to wait.

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I am feeling better. I had some moments earlier. I am wondering if I don't feel the relief as soon as I leave, I mean literally when I get all of my stuff to my new place.

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You are such a strong woman, putting up with that crap while being sick. Im glad your DH did wake up. I hope everything works out for you.

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Ya know, I don't know if I will even have cable or internet at my new place, lol!!! I don't care, I like reading anyway. I will definitely post in a couple of weeks. My next week is so busy...finding a therapist and going on vacation, woohoo!!! I am not ready to leave steptalk yet, thats for sure!!!

DH and I talked and he keeps saying he doesn't know what to do and I said to get the evaluation, to take advantage of the insurance I am paying for. He shuts down immediately but THATS WHAT THE CHILD NEEDS!!!