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Submitted by Oregon-step-Mom on Wed, 09/01/2010 - 7:08pm

I found this sight - and started to write out my long story with the history of the BM (which I thought stood for 'bad mother' before I read the FAQ...its fitting!) and me and my DH...but its just too long...

My problem is that she's just a bad person - she's not abusive or an addict... in fact she's the opposite. She's kind, and nice, and sweet, and relatable, and she makes you feel all warm in fuzzy inside... and then you walk away like what the HELL JUST HAPPENED!!!

I just hate her guts. She's a liar and a manipulator, and just is a worm. (ex. just the tip of the iceberg: we think she lied about having cancer...or at least the seriousness of it - Who would do such a thing you ask?? Well you tell me - no hair loss, no weight loss, and now 6 months after chemo and radiation SHE'S PREGNANT!)

Anyway - who know this BM? I've tried all the resources I have to get some dirt on her, PI's, attorneys, the damn judge, MIL!! (on her side)... and nothing matters or NO ONE CARES! Ahhh...I'm stressed today.

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anita...sigh's picture

Submitted by anita...sigh on Wed, 09/01/2010 - 7:49pm

I would like to reply but I do not have enough information. What is your custody arrangement? How many kids, ages, etc?

My first thought was why are you hiring PI and trying to dig up dirt on BM so I'm thinking there has got to be more to this story than just what's above.

At the most, she sounds a bit like a wingnut who wants attention from the info supplied.

Sounds like you need to learn to disengage from the situation with BM. It will definately help with your stress levels.

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Submitted by AVR1962 on Thu, 09/02/2010 - 5:44am

OregonStepMom, you may have stumbled onto something.....liars/ manipulators are very charming usually, I was married to one. If you feel like 'you don't know what happened' when you walk away from her, you have probably just been conned. People like this use others to gain what they want for themselves, they have no compassion for you althought they might seem to show an interest in you....it is to gain your good side to benefit them. Stop being the informant (you can continue to be nice without giving her info) and you might see a different side to this person.