SSons are 18 and 20. SS20 just graduated from Drug Court this week and is leading the normal life as a law abiding member of society (so far). SS18 has finished highschool last June and is working.

Christmas Eve is always DHs time. 10am 12/24 - 10am 12/25.

So why oh why has BM given a list of CHORES to her sons to complete before they come over here and celebrate Christmas with their father? Because SHE has chosen to go into work.

I know, the boys could tell her to get stuffed but SS20 needs somewhere to live and SS18 got into it with her and told her that her choice to work Christmas Eve and not clena up her house is NOT HIS PROBLEM. And they will be spending Christmas Day with their maternal grandmother (who is a sweetheart)and their mother's family out of town tomorrow.

So who knows when we will see them. I cannot bleieve it. A list of freaking chores???? So BM has her slaves back.