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"Her", "She", and "The evil one"

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Submitted by OKCStep on Thu, 05/03/2012 - 10:47pm

I was graced with having to hear a conversation between SS11 and BM tonight. BM (or Crazy Lady) has no custody, supervised visits, pays no CS and has no job. But, she thinks she is MOTY and I am the ONLY reason she doesn't have her kid. In her conversation with the wonderful, sweet, perfect SS11, she tells him that how awful I am, that she is so sorry his dad married me, and her house is so much better than mine. Ofcourse, he agreed. He cant stay up late, cant have a cat and doesn't get to watch the big screen Tv. I am awful! Why do I do aanything nice? Why even try? Is it worth it? Oh, and I get zero support from my Dh. The kid dean treat me like crape and DH is terrified to tell him not to. I really cant stand my life....

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Submitted by KLM on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 12:10am

I'm sorry your dealing with all that bullshit. That sucks that your dH is not supportive. I really hope it gets better for you!

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Submitted by KLM on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 12:10am

I'm sorry your dealing with all that bullshit. That sucks that your dH is not supportive. I really hope it gets better for you!

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Submitted by stepmomto3bioto1 on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 7:48am

Sounds like your DH needs a swift kick in the butt!!!! & BM needs to try being a Mom & not his best friend!!

Im so sorry to hear what you are going thru. I agree to the counseling. Nothing will get better until your DH gets with the program. I truly feel for you.

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Submitted by stepmomto3bioto1 on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 7:48am

Sounds like your DH needs a swift kick in the butt!!!! & BM needs to try being a Mom & not his best friend!!

Im so sorry to hear what you are going thru. I agree to the counseling. Nothing will get better until your DH gets with the program. I truly feel for you.

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Submitted by OKCStep on Fri, 05/04/2012 - 8:03am

The Skid sees a psychologist. And DH sees a counselor. I went alone for awhile, but had a handle on the situation. I have read every book, tried all the advise from the counselor, and was still being treated horribly. So, she recommended that DH see a counselor. It may take more patience than I have to see if it works. Why do BM's have to make their children hate us? Don't they see that it hurts them, too? She told SS11 last night that she hopes being around me doesn't make him as bad a person as I am. I mean, really? When you abandoned this kid, I started raising him. And have been there 730 days - consecutively! Do I make rules? Yes. But that doesn't make me horrible. UGH!