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Bratty SD's bday

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Submitted by NumbSM on Sun, 09/09/2012 - 11:48am

Not sure what to do. Bratty, disrespectful, ungrateful SD's bday coming up and I'm usually the one that gets her gifts for our family. Well after proclaiming last week that she hates me, I really do not want to spend my hard earned money on her. I only contemplate it because it would hurt my husbands feelings and probably start an argument. Only a few people know my true feelings about her and he is not one of them. It would crush him if I said I can't stand the bi$&@!!!

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Submitted by NumbSM on Thu, 09/06/2012 - 3:24pm

I'm new to this so im still trying to get all the abbreviations being used. But I must say BM is great!! I'm a nurse so everytime I type BM I think of bowel movement which describes her perfectly!!! Lol

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Submitted by NumbSM on Thu, 09/06/2012 - 11:15am

I wanted to start out by saying I'm so thankful to read these posts and know that I'm not the only one going thru this stuff. 99% of it I've been thru, witnessed, experienced, etc... It's been a long, hard road and still have many miles to go. I've been a SM for 12 yrs now and it's not getting any easier. I was never the "other woman" or the reason why mom & dad are not together. My husband and the BM were never married and only have a somewhat civil relationship due to my SD. I've been in my SD's life since she was 9 months old.