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Submitted by nowhere to turn on Sat, 07/14/2012 - 9:09am

Its all crystal clear to me now, my DH is the problem! In another one of our "conversations" about SS10 behavior, he point blank says to me all the kids act this way. Referring to my BS12 and BD9. Omg are u kidding me!! No honey not all the kids act this way, only your spoiled rotten little brat does! And to make matters worse he said this within earshot of the little demon spawn so way to go giving him an excuse for his behavior....yet again. My DH is a wonderful husband but a really crappy father, he doesn't want to take any accountablity for HIS sons actions and now he's handing the torch down to SS10. This child is manipulative, rude, disrepectful, violent, and all around a bad seed and somewhere along the line this has turned into my problem. I have done my job, my BC are well rounded, good kids and he doesn't see the problem! Are u kidding me, grow up and do YOUR job, and maybe then we would have less adults doing stupid shit!

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Submitted by Stepcop on Sat, 07/14/2012 - 11:54am

I think this with my dh when he keeps making excuse for sd13's psych behavior. The thought actually occurred to me the other night after I posted and had let some things out, even Ted bundy and John wayne gacy had parents, I wonder if the excuses rained from their parents mouths like they do my dh's. When my sd13 threatened to hit me, and it took everything I had not to choke hold her to the floor until she passed out, my dh didn't even get that upset. He seemed more upset that he had to be called while working. Uhhhh...I wonder if they will see before its too late. Nim almost willing to deal with so many if the other behaviors: if she wants to wear dirty clothes and underwear, ok, if she wants to show off her suicidal indicator bracelet from the mental hospital, alright, that all screams lazy and I want attention. But with what me and my dh husband do, and what I grew up with, I will be the first to call in a few favors from some very large and scary police officers to hall her ungrateful, violent ass to juvey if she thinks she will ever get away with hurting me or my cat!