If you read my last blog, I had wrote that BM had decided that SS should live with us because she can't handle him. But of course she's been flopping back and forth about it. First it was, he will miss me too much, then it was his grandparent's will miss him, now the real truth: She's scared she will no longer be allowed to live in the 3 bedroom government-assistance housing they live in now. She's like they will find out, then make me move. Well shouldn't DH just have said: Sorry but that is not our concern. If you were actually worried, you would go get a job. But no, Dh says: Well maybe they won't find out. I just hate how he has to be so nice to her. I'm sick of it. They just spent about an hour on the phone talking about this, while he was on his lunch break at home. He just sat in a corner and talked to her on the phone like it was some gab fest. It literally makes me feel sick. The thing is, DH loves his kids, but he really is not involved in the daily upbringing of his kids (even DD's who lives with us). But when he's on the phone with BM, its like he's FOFY. Either BM is really a shitty mom (likely) or he just likes his ego boosted when he can tell her how to raise his son. Sorry for rambling...but I seriously hate it that he's her emotional support when it comes to this stuff, because he's not much a an emotional support to me at all. He barely hears anything I say anyways, but when BM texts or calls, he jumps.